You're wasting your time.
The more you're being sad on the things that doesnt matter, the more you're wasting your time. Instead you hanging out with your friends and living your life to the fullest, you're in your house crying over useless things that won't matter after 20 years. You're completely wasting your time over being sad. You should use your sadness as motivation to yourself that you can be better and you will better and they'll regret losing you. In that way, you can attract gentlemen that would care and love you more than them. There is nothing time can fix, including of course a broken heart.
It's just a phrase.
Like what i've said earlier, it won't matter after 20 years. You are in love with the memories not the person. You should know that you're just hurt and you just want to fill the gap that they left inside of you. It's just a phrase and you will look back one day and you will just laugh while you're holding the hand of the love of your life. You will meet them one day but in the process, life will give you the things you need including you getting hurt, confused, cared and loved for you to become the person that you're meant to become. So endure the pain and move on.
When they leave, they're giving the opportunity for someone to take care of you better. Patience is what you need here. You should have the patience to wait for someone that will treat you correspondence with your worth; which is priceless. You need someone to make effort and to be consistent and not just someone that gives you mixed signals. They'll give another person your smile, your annoying jokes and your quirks and they will not just endure them but they will love them. So wait for what you deserve.
